How “Long” You’ve Been Single Is A Bullsh*t Metric

Why do we do this?

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I work in the single space. Sometimes it feels like I approach what I do by asking, “What totally normal and okay thing are we going to be ashamed of today?!” And then I try my damnedest to explain how a shame-y thing wasn’t worth being ashamed of from the start. I’ll tell you, I never run out of fodder, so yay job security, I guess. Single shame is…