Are You Sick Of Dating Advice Yet?

Shani Silver
6 min readJan 11, 2021

At what point is dating the problem, not you?

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When are we done? When is it time to admit that our approach isn’t working, and that it’s time to look at the problem itself in a completely new way? To read this, and to know that I write for single women, you might think I’m suggesting that single women should rethink their approach to the ways they date. I’m not. I’m actually talking to everyone who gives single women dating advice. I don’t think we need to hear from you anymore.

This comes from a place of exhaustion, from one Instagram post too many. I’m tired of a very basic assumption the world makes about single women: If we’re single, we must be doing something wrong.

The old, couplehood good/singlehood bad chestnut is a giant ship to course correct, so for now I’m just going to pick away at the problem one bit of bullshit at a time. Today, I want to talk about how the only messaging we seem to be able to create for and give to single women pertains to making her better at dating.

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