Please Don’t Move Somewhere For The “Dating Scene”We need to talk about goals. Not life goals, not girlboss-on-a-private-jet #bestlife bullshit, but the practical goals we want individual…May 16A response icon1May 16A response icon1
Wedding Dresses Look Good In Your 40sIn my singlehood work, very often but maybe specifically in the last few months, readers and listeners want me to talk about “losing hope,”…May 5May 5
How To Make New Friends As A Single PersonI love recurring questions. Everyone having the same problem doesn’t stress me out, it makes me feel like I’m a part of a community. Oh…May 2May 2
A Sickening Amount Of SolitudeIf the whole pandemic/isolation thing was just business as usual for you, this one’s yours. This is for those whose lives looked really…Apr 28A response icon5Apr 28A response icon5
Here’s What Dating Does To Our HopeRelationships are hard work. Ever heard that one? Has anyone ever said it to you over dinner, maybe when you’ve expressed your exasperation…Apr 24A response icon2Apr 24A response icon2
Single People Aren’t StupidWhat if being single wasn’t a failing grade? What if it wasn’t a characteristic of a person, but instead just a thing they happened to be…Apr 16Apr 16
Single Girls Get The Couch: 7 Years LaterSeven years ago I wrote an essay about how single people are treated as permanent children by their loved ones. We’re not treated with the…Apr 10A response icon3Apr 10A response icon3
Yes Dating Is “That Bad” NowOne of the privileges of working in the singlehood space is people. I get to connect with so many people who’ve shown me kindness…Apr 7A response icon4Apr 7A response icon4
Stop Guilting Single People Into Dating ForeverIn January of 2019, I stopped dating. After ten years of being strung along by dating culture, I finally chose to stop buying the bullshit…Apr 3A response icon2Apr 3A response icon2
A “Nice Guy” Is Not EnoughI don’t care about how things sound, I care about how things are. So when I hear the term “nice guy,” where once I might have clamored to…Mar 25A response icon3Mar 25A response icon3
