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Single Revolution: Don't Look for a Match. Light One
Single Revolution: Don't Look for a Match. Light One

Changing the narrative and ending the shame around being single.

2021

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Shani Silver
Shani Silver

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Self Worth For Single People

What a concept. What even is self worth? Has anyone ever defined it for you? Have you ever defined it for yourself? If not, save any overwhelmed, stressed feelings for your next murder podcast, you won’t need them here. Right now, you’re in exactly the right place, at exactly the…

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Self Worth For Single People
Self Worth For Single People
Relationships

17 min read


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The Insanity Of Being Single

This sh*t is crazy. I dated a blonde boy once. Years ago. A tall blonde who sometimes wore glasses, knew how to build things, could keep up with me in conversation and used to play guitar in a band but now had a real job and a mortgage. …

Relationships

15 min read

The Insanity Of Being Single
The Insanity Of Being Single
Relationships

15 min read


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Start Blaming Single Men, Right Now

We’re not single because of us. We’re single because of you. I read this piece. I hope you do, too. It’s beautifully written by Morgan Parker and so many single women will see themselves in her words and in her confusion as to why we are alone despite presenting objectively…

Relationships

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Start Blaming Single Men, Right Now
Start Blaming Single Men, Right Now
Relationships

8 min read


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Enough Already. Where The F*ck Do I Meet My Husband?

If this is you, we should talk. Everything’s fine until you’re tired. Until fatigue sets in, single women are on board for quite a lot. You’d be impressed by the very volume of dating advice, dating services, dating strategies, and dating coaches that single women will seek out before we’re…

Relationships

8 min read

Enough Already. Where The F*ck Do I Meet My Husband?
Enough Already. Where The F*ck Do I Meet My Husband?
Relationships

8 min read


2 days ago

“If We’re Not Married By The Time We’re 40”

Lol. What’s the worst that could happen? It’s both a question and a moving target. An answer that is entirely subjective, changes with age, and is our mind’s most clever way of freaking us out for nothing. Once the “worst” happens to you, you typically realize it’s not all that…

Relationships

5 min read

“If We’re Not Married By The Time We’re 40”
“If We’re Not Married By The Time We’re 40”
Relationships

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5 days ago

Being Single Is Not A Punishment

Stop trying to suffer your way out of it. You don’t deserve to be single. You aren’t single because of your “flaws” or your “incorrect approach” to dating. You are single because you haven’t met your partner yet, not because you haven’t “kissed enough frogs” to finally deserve a prince…

Relationships

8 min read

Being Single Is Not A Punishment
Being Single Is Not A Punishment
Relationships

8 min read


Sep 17

Single Women Don’t Want Your Husband

Are we failures or threats? Pick one. Vixen. Temptress. Minx. Single women are sad, pathetic cat ladies until it’s time to hang out with them and acknowledge their social validity, then suddenly we’re more dangerous than an open flame. Which is it I wonder, the failure or the threat? What…

Relationships

7 min read

Single Women Don’t Want Your Husband
Single Women Don’t Want Your Husband
Relationships

7 min read


Sep 13

How To Make New Friends When You’re Single

Everyone has this question, and I think that’s a good thing. A collective with a recurring problem doesn’t stress me out, it makes me feel like I’m a part of something. Oh, this is annoying for everyone? Thank goodness, I’m not alone. The most recurring question I receive isn’t about…

Relationships

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How To Make New Friends When You’re Single
How To Make New Friends When You’re Single
Relationships

10 min read


Sep 8

It’s Not You, It’s Dating Culture

You can’t be good at something bad. If you’ve ever felt alone, as though the horrors of dating culture are happening to you and only you, I hope what follows helps you feel better. It is intended to. The most common trait among all the singles I hear from shouldn’t…

Relationships

7 min read

It’s Not You, It’s Dating Culture
It’s Not You, It’s Dating Culture
Relationships

7 min read


Sep 6

1 Product, 24 Hours, A $27 Price Increase

What the actual f*ck is happening with Whole Foods Coffee? In the summer of 2021 I started drinking Whole Foods’ Pleasant Morning Buzz coffee. For about 14 months I paid $10.99 per bag, consistently, for this product. In December of 2022 I noticed the price of my coffee went up…

Money

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1 Product, 24 Hours, A $27 Price Increase
1 Product, 24 Hours, A $27 Price Increase
Money

5 min read

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